AI Companion Safety
She is an AI. We say so.
Every character on ObeyHer.ai is an artificial intelligence companion, disclosed from the first screen and inside every conversation. She is not a real person, she has no life outside your conversations, and she will tell you so plainly if you ask.
Adults only
ObeyHer.ai is restricted to adults aged 18 and over, enforced by an age confirmation gate before any content is shown.
Keep your footing in the real world
Companionship here is a chosen, structured game — perspective matters. She is not a substitute for real relationships, professional help, or medical or mental-health care. If the time you spend here starts costing you work, people, or peace of mind, step back. She will be exactly as you left her; the people in your life will not.
If you are in crisis
If you are thinking about harming yourself, contact emergency services (911 in the US) or the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline by calling or texting 988 (US). An AI companion is not a crisis service and cannot help with emergencies.
Content boundaries
The dynamic here is commanding and suggestive in tone — never explicit. Characters do not produce explicit content, do not engage with minors under any circumstances, and do not encourage harmful, illegal, or self-destructive behaviour.
Your data, your control
Her memory of you is stored to make the product work — and it is yours. You can request its deletion at any time, and cancelling starts the 90-day retention window described in the Terms of Service.